Town vs Country – Real Time 10/22/09
My mom and I have just celebrated our one year anniversary of moving to Belize. In a lot of ways it feels as though we’ve been here for much longer than one year – that could just be the fact that so much has happened within that year. Recently I’ve been really contemplating what I will do in the upcoming year. Will it be another year in Belize? Back to the states to resume a “normal” life? Somewhere else altogether? I really don’t know and once I quit worrying about it I realize that it’s sort of fun to not know what will come next. That’s what bored me with my life in Oregon; I always knew what was coming next. As I’m writing this I’m ‘borrowing’ a friend’s house to get away from the bustling town of Corozal and just look out on the bay surrounded only by the sounds of the wind’s affect on nature. It makes me wonder what the pros and cons are of living in a town here versus being isolated on the water. My mom and I are lucky enough to have friends here who have the isolated properties and don’t mind sharing every now and then so we really get to experience both while we’re here because our house is very much in town and about a 5 minute walk from the bay. After a year I’ve experienced a lot of the pros and cons of these options.
I’ll start with my friends in Progresso, they have essentially built a small compound which is called Progresso Shores. Progresso is a small village across the Corozal bay and located on a lagoon named Progresso Lagoon. It’s either accessible by boat or by vehicle crossing over a hand-cranked ferry. Progresso Shores is outside of the village and located right on the shores of the lagoon. It is completely isolated and absolutely beautiful. As you may imagine the lagoon holds much calmer water than the bay so you only hear the water when there is a breeze blowing which is fairly often there. The water seems to change colors frequently; one day, or even hour, it’s a deep blue color while the next it gives off a green hue. I’ve been out on the lagoon in a boat, kayak, water-skis and simply swimming and it really feels as though the entire body of water is your own playground – it is rare to see any other boat or person out there playing. In the early morning the parrots fly over the compound, chatting away amongst themselves, and then you’ll hear them again fly by around 5pm going back wherever they came from. The nights and the mornings are my very favorite time of day here and that is simply due to the silence. When I wake up there in the morning I hear birds and wind blowing through the palms and when evening hits it’s the very same thing – if I could use a place to define peace this would be it. It truly is a perfect place to be but with this complete paradise comes a few drawbacks.
Of course each ‘drawback’ is based completely on each person’s personality so I mention these as potential drawbacks only. You simply cannot easily obtain food supplies (unless they are growing in your garden) and this forces you to be organized and efficient anytime a trip in to town is planned. Going in to town should really happen on a minimal basis because it’s always an ordeal – the roads are not well maintained by the government so going in to town means at least a 40 minute ride on a very bumpy and dusty road and quite often over a ferry which is hand-cranked, adding another chunk of time on to the entire trip. So if you are the person who loves to just hop in the car and stop off at the corner store, it won’t happen here. The next potential drawbacks are the critters you may encounter. Since there aren’t as many people around there are more creatures. This can include crocodiles, iguanas, snakes, scorpions, lizards, geckos, spiders among others. You will see them but the good news is that they typically won’t bother you if you don’t bother them. Having a big dog that eats all these things can also come in handy – although I’m not sure there’s a lot you can do about the croc besides leave him alone. Lastly, a possible drawback here is the effect it may have on your social life. It’s a long drive back home which means you may not be going out much at night to have a few with your friends, this means it becomes a big deal to go out and most often what will occur is your social life will come to you. Friends you find in the village or who live around you are a different story but there just aren’t a lot of people around you. I will say that the parties I’ve been to at Progresso Shores are some of the best times I’ve had in this country – when you’re isolated parties are that much more fun.
The next living option here would be a house in town such as ours. We live within walking or biking distance to almost anything within the town. All the utility companies are close, the stores are easy to get to and we may find ourselves going there twice in a day because we forgot something, any town events are easy to get to and experience because we live 5 minutes away, internet is fast and we have reliable neighbors who watch out for us. The bay is within a 5 minute walk from the house and you can jump in anywhere you want along the water front. The drawbacks are many in this situation though, there are dogs barking at night (this is a sound you get used to), cars going by the house, people walking and talking at all times of the day and night and occasionally a house party that gets pretty loud – basically you have the sounds of any typical town. For us it’s easy because our bar is right next door so we have zero commute to work and we get reliable and frequent deliveries to our business. Any sunset or sunrise that we experience is shielded in part by a power line or neighboring house and we don’t get to see the water at night from our windows. It’s trading convenience for tranquility.
The last living option which I have experienced is in town but on the outskirts and on the water. You get the bay right in your backyard with this option and it’s phenomenal. As I’ve sat here not one boat has raced by so even though you can see the town offshore you still get almost free reign of the bay when you want to go play. There are a few cars and trucks you hear throughout the day on the quiet dirt road off the house which makes you aware of the outside world as opposed to Progresso Shores where you can actually forget about the rest of the world. Here you are still close enough to town that most things are convenient and accessible. With a breeze blowing it is absolutely relaxing. The drawbacks here are really based on what will happen in the future. Everything seems perfect now but there are still lots on either side that will be filled, the town will expand in to these outskirts and the isolation that is so appealing now will slowly fade away. Yes, this may happen in a place like Progresso but it will be way down the line rather than in town where it could potentially happen within the next two years.
After thinking about these options I would conclude that for me, if I were to stay in Belize, I would choose isolation. It is absolutely amazing how close to nature you feel and how powerful that really is. I can always drive my car in to town to get my dose of the real world but then when I went back home I would remain in a truly inspiring place that is worth a few sacrifices.